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It is obvious that marriage is the first institution ever established
by the Almighty God. The importance of marriage can’t be overemphasized because
at one point in life everybody will get married except those who are eunuchs,
nuns, celibates and monks. But as important as marriage is, there is no school
anywhere in the entire world where people could go and learn about it. Marriage
is the most complicated issue in life but people don’t seek information about
it.
People spend seven years in the university to acquire knowledge about how
they could become medical doctors, some spend six years to gather knowledge on
how to become mechanical engineers while others spend five years to acquire
knowledge in the field of law to become lawyers. But nobody spends time to
gather knowledge about marriage before they jump into it! This is the bane of
marriage! It is not because there are no specific schools where issues about
marriage are taught that prevents people from seeking knowledge about it rather
it is simply because people don’t attach much importance to marriage as they do
to other aspects of their lives. After all, there are very good books about
marriage but people don’t read them! Again, there are notable marriage counselors across the globe that can give good counsels about marriage but
people don’t visit them because they don’t want to spend money!
Thus, from dating, wooing, choosing a partner, courtship and
getting married, are all done without a minute knowledge of what marriage is
all about. So, people go into marriage in total ignorance and blindness.
Therefore, because of lack of knowledge in marriage, people rush into it and
rush of it too.
Subsequently, my next posts will address dating, wooing,
choosing a partner, courtship and getting married. Also, I will endeavour to discuss
the factors that can make or mar marriages. A bad marriage is next to hell fire while a good marriage is next to heaven. You won't enjoy your life if you have a bad marriage, on the other hand, your life will be blissful if you a good marriage. In this regard, follow me
persistently as I take you step by step through the various processes of
relationships leading to marriage.
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